There was, however, some part of me that longed for what some of my cousins have-a hometown to go back to, with family down the street or an hour away. I see my cousins' kids visiting with their grandparents on a weekly basis and I want that for our future kids, and for myself.

I know what you all are thinking...oh God poor Dave..In laws down the street. But don't fret friends, my parents are very independent people with lots of friends, agendas, dinners, travel plans, so they won't get in our hair-and I promise not to get in theirs either. And luckily we have such a close relationship that if either party starts to encroach on the others personal space we have no problem saying, "hey I've seen you three days in a row, we need some breathing room-back off!" In the most loving manner of course.
Family is the most important to me and to Dave. Friends come and go (not the best ones that turn into family) but family is always there. They HAVE to love you. Suckas!
*close enough to come over in a hurry if need be but far enough away to call before coming over!
that's awesome!
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